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Cardiac Clearance for Surgery

Yesterday, I had an appointment with a new Cardiologist, because my Podiatrist has requested that I have this prior to surgery. It is my understanding that the Anesthesiologist might refuse and my surgery would have to be rescheduled. My mother had a difficult pregnancy with me and almost lost me. At birth, I was born with the umbilical cord around my neck and part of my body and I wasn’t breathing. It took some time for them to get a response, but later I was diagnosed with an Cardiac Arrhythmia, which is very common; there are more than 3 million per year diagnosed. A Cardiac Arrhythmia is also called an Irregular Heartbeat or improper beating of the heart, whether irregular, too fast, or too slow; and it occurs when electrical impulses in the heart don’t work properly.

I now have surgery scheduled, on October 30, 2019, the day before Halloween. It is difficult being so far apart from my wonderful fiancé, Austin, because I really hoped he would be here with me by now. I did not want to have another surgery without Austin by my side. Austin’s voice helps to soothe me when I am desperately in pain. He also has a way to calm me down when I become upset. I love him very much and miss him terribly. If I could visit him again, I would be on the next plane to Nigeria, but since my return from my last trip I was told that I would not be allowed to fly again without a physician’s clearance; which to date I have been unable to obtain due to some health issues that are slowly getting better. I dread going into surgery, because I know I will not be able to hold his hand and give him a kiss and knowing that when I wake up his face would be the first face I see.
International Relationships are extremely difficult, especially when you have health issues. Austin is my emotional support and I for him, as well. But, it just is not the same as having him with me physically. It is also difficult knowing that someone whom has never seen us together and spends only 5 minutes with us to tell us whether we can be together or not.

The Immigration process doesn’t make our lives any easier.

All I kept thinking when I was at the doctor appointment this morning was how much I truly miss Austin. Despite the stressors I have endured lately, I obtained cardiac clearance and have my surgery date. Since I was 18 years old I have now endured 26 surgeries and I still have many more to go, before this part of my journey is complete. I despise what Austin must go through every single day just so he can make sure that he is always available for me whenever I might need him for an emergency. But, he tries so hard and he truly does so much for me on a day to day basis.

I just pray that this upcoming surgery on my right foot will have me up and walking some until I have my next surgery to have my stimulators removed. Eventually, I will need a total knee replacement, wrist surgery, pain pump surgery, and lastly skin removal and a breast reduction and lift combined with Hernia repairs (I hope). I am so thankful to have Austin by my side at least through electronics, for now. It really sucks that our Immigration system would not even issue a Tourist Visa for him to be here for my surgery.


Austin, I love you so very much and I can’t wait until we are together again. You are my soulmate!

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Power supply in Nigeria- What we really go through

Hi Everyone,

It’s me again Prince Austin. I am the fiancé to my super adorable woman, Princess Michelle. I’m here to talk about one major issue we are still suffering from until date in Nigeria, this issue is Power supply. I go through a lot to keep my phone on and not to lose contact with my woman because due to this long distance I want to be there for her at all times, especially because of her health issues, so I don’t want this issue with electricity here to get in the way. I wake up every morning, brush my teeth, and take my bath (with cold water every day, I might add), and then set out into the outrageously hot temperature, due to the hot sun, to the store or to my friend’s place (Williams), so I can get my phone charged and not get disconnected from my woman.

We both need each other and there is no way in hell I am going to allow Nigeria’s crazy issues with power get in the way of communication with my woman. That is why I go through this stress just to keep my phone charged. I know Michelle doesn’t like me stressing over the charging, but I can’t help it, because I feel completely useless if I can’t be there for my woman, via video call, or even voice calls, because somehow my voice takes her pains away, which makes me feel even more special. I just wish that someday, this issue of electricity will be solved and we can one day enjoy what we have, because a lot of businesses have closed down due a large amount of high bills for fuel and diesel, since they can’t depend on power supply either (to which it never comes). I’ll go through anything just to not lose connection with my woman, because she means the world to me and I don’t want her to ever feel alone on this journey, because it’s hard enough that we are so far way from each other.
I love you to the moon and back Michelle!

Thank you all for reading.