Who I Am and Why I Am Here!

My name is Michelle Oladehin and I have decided to start this blog, because I can’t think of a better way to tell others my story and also find a community that is going through some of the same challenges as I am. More importantly I would love if readers could help me narrow my focus, because the most important thing to me in my personal life is finding my way back to Lagos, Nigeria, Africa to marry the love of my life, my best friend, my everything, my world, and ultimately bring him to America to start our lives together, finally!

My intended audience would follow us on our journey to be together despite the odds stacked against us, right from the start. I am currently engaged to my fiancé, Austin Igbokwe.  Austin is from Lagos, Nigeria, Africa while I am from Fort Worth, Texas, USA. Austin and I have now been together for 4 years, since March 2015. We have already been through some really tough times and we are now headed for even more difficult times.

I am also trying to decide if I want to include by new business venture, my disabilities, my pain management issues, and more into this one blog or if I am tttoo much all over the place.

Austin and I met on

Austin proposed to me on 11 October 2017. We filed for a K1 Fiancé Visa; however, we were denied in 2019. Now, our plan is file for a Spousal Visa once I am able to safely return to Nigeria. I have since been experienciing a great deal of health related complicatoins upon my return to the USA from Nigeria after spending a month in Lagos, Nigeria with Austin and his family.

Upon my return to the USA I was deemed ineligible to return to Nigeria via any flight method. I was hospitalized for a week in Dublin, Ireland because I requested medical assistance during

Well, I started this blog with a particular outcome, but it has not published exactly as I would have liked. My name is Michelle Oladehin and I am engaged to my best friend ever, Austin Igbokwe.

Actually, he and I both had a vision for this blog eventually, but it just has not gone the intended. So I just wanted you know that I still would like to have a career either as s blogger/vlogger documenting the craziness in my life. Personally, I would like to try this written blogger side if possible and just see where it takes me,

Also, I want to introduce my new business. I will provide a link to my Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest pages. I have some content posted that I have actually completed and I have a few more to add. I also have several pictures of items that I can make for demonstration purposes only.

I have recently started a new Die-Cutting business and I can make personalized T-shirts, personalized invitations for Weddings, Birthday Parties, Anniversary Parties, and Dinner Parties, I can also create Cake Toppers for any party; I am working toward some repairs for my sewing machine in hopes to start making Finger Puppet’s for children, and many other items. I am also trying to start making Tumbler’s and Tumbler Sets for all stages of life and they can be individualized or family themed for a reunion or other party. I also have a new line of Tumbler’s coming out with a specialized theme that is close to my heart.

Just to throw it out there, our original intention for our blog was to reach out to many who are in unique relationships, such as my fiancé and I, International Relationships and living the life of a Long Distant Relationship and now dealing with the COVID-19 Delay’s in Immigration and our NEW NORM is to look like, since the outbreak.